Wednesday, January 15, 2014

Brrrrr...it's cold!

It got bad here in Xiangyang. As the temperature got colder, I found myself getting colder too. I got cold physically, and emotionally I began to feel cold too. I tried my best not to show it, and I think I succeeded in doing that. By the end, it was all I could do to just keep the smile on my face.


And being cold inside and out led to more things. The cold wasn’t just outside, but inside my house too. Every day as soon as I got home from work, I changed immediately into my tights, sweatpants, long sleeve shirt, and sweatshirt and jumped under the covers in my bed and stayed there for the rest of the evening. It became a party of me and my computer. I would often pull the covers of my comforter over my head and let my body heat form a little pocket of warm air in my bedroom. When it became too hot and the air was getting thin, I’d pull up the sheets to let some more air in, but almost immediately pull them back down again once I got enough air.


I’d become so jaded by living in the cold in Xiangyang, and I forgot what it was like to feel better than I did. I didn’t know what being completely content and happy felt like anymore, and I was getting sick. Not “I have a cold” sick, but I was malnourished and dehydrated. I ate only when I was hungry because being depressed broke my will to leave the house, and being cold made me unwilling to drink any liquid because that would just make me more cold. I didn’t even realize I was getting malnourished and dehydrated because I was just so cold.


I didn’t realize it at this time. I’ll write again in a later blog post about how I did realize it.


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